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Relationship Advice


For over 25 years John Grey, Ph.D. has given people practical and effective relationship advice.

This website offers relationship advice and help, powerful tools and new strategies that support lasting happiness in love.

You will find many sources of information and relationship advice on this page which can make a positive difference in your life.

Explore the resources below for relationship help, love advice, online tools, self-help information and books that can help you today. Learn about our couples retreats and phone coaching.

Relationship Advice & Help  
Answers to People's Questions — Browse hundreds of questions and answers John has given to people over the years. You may find something that sheds a new light on your own situation.
Ask Us for Relationship Advice — See questions and answers we have given, and get an opportunity to ask us your own specific question.
Tip of the Day — Click for a quick insight, a mini-lesson in relationships which could just make today work better for you.
Relationship Oracle — Get insights and new options from an interactive self-help tool — a special set of flashcards about relationship.
Online Articles — Read short articles on a number of key topics that have a vital bearing on the success or failure of a relationship. (See list below)

Three Powerful Help Options

Tools for Positive Change — Get immediate and powerful relationship help. Available as a download or in print, our self-help system gives you practical, effective tools to overcome problems and issues, transform negative feelings, communicate well, get positive results, and build a secure relationship filled with happiness and love. (read more)
Relationship Coaching — Get coaching in person or by phone from John. Learn exactly what you need to know to create the change you want. Get help to iron out difficult issues. Gain effective tools and skills to have a great relationship. (read more)
Couples Retreat — The couples retreat is a fast track to positive change — an intensive, supportive place to achieve profound results. In a concentrated two-day program, your relationship will be noticeably transformed. New doors will open. And you will take home key tools to keep your relationship growing on a positive track. (read more)
Informative Online Articles
Personality Types in Relationship — Learn about the core aspects of each of the nine personality types and how each can grow in order to develop greater success and satisfaction in relationships.
What Makes a Couple Successful? — Discover the essential ingredients to long term happiness in a relationship. How to be a couple who will pass the tests of time and keep love strong.



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  Other helpful resources on this site...  
  Online Articles — Learn about tools and strategies that support relationship health and happiness.  
  Keys to Lasting Love
How to overcome issues and keep a relationship strong, healthy and happy.
  Quiz — Take a brief test
on your relationship core beliefs, and how these
may be limiting you.
  Relationship Oracle
Discover insights and new options with an interactive deck of special flashcards.
  Relationship Secrets
Our new book gives the essential ingredients for a lasting great relationship.
  Relationship Class
Learn tools to overcome problems, and strengthen love and satisfaction.
  Online Store — See our available books and decks of cards that will help you have a great relationship.  
Are Soulmates a Myth or a Reality? — Many people dream about a soulmate. But few people can say they are with one. Is the very notion a limiting belief that keeps us from ever being happy with a real partner? Or is there a way in which we can create this quality in any relationship?
Beyond the Honeymoon — We all know that sooner or later it is over. Then how can a couple attain lasting happiness? Here is a look at the changes that inevitably occur and lead most couples from initial bliss to a sense that something is missing or wrong — and what you can do about it.
Stopping Destructive Communication — Many times, how we communicate does not work, and only creates bigger problems than the issues we were attempting to deal with. Here is a set of clear strategies to avoid damaging your relationship and instead be effective and get positive results.
Working with Charged or Upset Feelings — Eveyone will suffer from some form of upset feelings, whether that is openly emotional or results in withdrawal and walling off. Here are new and effective tools for working with such negative feelings in a way that can get you positive results.
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