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For over 25 years John Grey, Ph.D. has provided effective and practical coaching to help couples succeed in having healthy, joyful, rewarding relationships.

John can help you get clear insights and give you new tools and strategies to make positive changes — even if you are now in a rough spot, or suffering from problems.

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"Our relationship has been brought up to a whole new level... so much
more appreciation and happiness." — from past clients (read more)

    What Relationship Coaching Offers

    If you don't have the relationship of your dreams, things can change — and you can do something about it. The only question is what to do.

    That's where relationship coaching can help.

    Relationship coaching offers new perspective and positive options. Coaching provides you with new strategies and tools for overcoming challenges.

    It is a fact in today's society that most of us enter adult relationships without having the right tools to succeed. This explains why our rate of divorce is high and most couples end up being dissatisfied in some way.

 
     
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  "Powerful tools to expand joy and happiness in relating!"
 
     
  Dr. John Gray
Men Are from Mars,
Women Are from Venus
 
     
 

    Learning a good relationship skill set is not a part of our general education. Problems in creating or maintaining a satisfying relationship tell us we need to learn these essential skills now.

    Relationship coaching provides you with the key tools and strategies to succeed. By getting coaching you will not only find help to resolve your issues — you will learn to master vital tools you'll use for the rest of your life.

 
Experienced Coaching Does Help
   
New Vision — John provides an outside, objective set of eyes, experienced in seeing the underlying patterns in relationships. He can help you clearly see what is at the root of your issues — and how to shift things to a positive direction.
   
New Tools and Strategies — In over 25 years of coaching, John found what works — and what doesn't — to succeed. He provides you proven, effective tools and strategies to work through obstacles and have a great relationship that gets better with time.
   
New Results — John's approach is goal-directed. He coaches you to make practical improvements and get tangible results — where you make positive changes that will get you the increased joy and happiness you truly want in your life.
   

    The good news is that you can learn new tools for success. You can learn key strategies for creating and maintaining a great relationship, one that stays strong, even in the face of challenges.

    With the help of an experienced guide — and with the right tools — you can overcome obstacles and create a joyful, rewarding partnership.

    John's lifework is to help people succeed in building great relationships. He would be delighted to help you to build the relationship of your dreams!

 

     
     
     
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Sessions are 60 minutes. Extended sessions are available.

Sessions are appropriate:
    for Couples
    for Individuals in Relationship
    for Singles

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    If you would like in person couples coaching, marriage coaching or relationship coaching then please contact us. Couples counseling, marriage counseling and relationship counseling sessions are available in person to couples or individuals who live in Sonoma County or Marin County, including the towns of Santa Rosa, Sonoma, Healdsburg, Petaluma, Sebastopol and Windsor.

 
     
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    Extended length sessions can be set up for individuals or couples living in or visiting the greater Bay Area, San Francisco, the East Bay, Oakland, Berkeley, the South Bay, Palo Alto, and Santa Cruz, Marin or Mendocino County.

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About Your Coach

     
   
     

    John Grey, Ph.D. is a relationship coach, workshop leader and author. He received his Doctorate in Psychology in 1975 from Stanford, where he taught and codirected a National Science Foundation sponsored research center. His research papers in psychology have been published in major scientific and professional journals, and are widely quoted in college textbooks. He has extensive training in cognitive and behavioral psychologies aimed at short term treatment and goal-directed coaching that achieves specific results. He has broad training in psychology of personality structure and the Enneagram (over a decade of training with Helen Palmer), and how to overcome relationship issues caused by differences in personal styles. He is also trained in somatic psychology, trauma resolution and Somatic Experiencing (the work of Peter Levine, Ph.D.).

    John has been in private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area since 1980. He has presented workshops in communication and relationship skills at the Esalen Institute, the University of California Berkeley, Stanford University, and the Scripps Institute in La Jolla. He worked with John Grinder, Ph.D., teacher of Tony Robbins and the key developer of Neurolinguistic Programming, or NLP. He has given professional trainings for therapists and medical personnel in communication techniques and advanced tools for improving relationships and personal growth. He was on Dr. John Gray's (author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus) referral list of counselors.

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Letter from Past Clients

     
                      
     
 

    Dear John,

    I just wanted to send you a card to say hello and to let you know that we are thinking of you.

    It's been a couple of years since we spent time with you as our relationship coach. I want to take a moment to thank you so much for all your support and guidance.

    Josh and I are doing so well in our marriage with all the core foundational work we did with you. We are now able to work so well together. Our relationship has been brought up to a whole new level.

    It truly is amazing to see how much we have both changed and how we have moved beyond our old patterns. Now there is so much more appreciation and happiness. I feel a deep sense of peace, contentment and deep love in my life — in my marriage and family.

    I never in my wildest dreams believed that I could be capable of such feelings — especially from where we started. But here they are, gifts I treasure everyday. Thank you so much for helping us get here.

    With Love,
    Laura and Josh Woodlander

 
     
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