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    John Grey, Ph.D. is a relationship coach, workshop leader, and author. He received a Doctorate in Psychology in 1975 from Stanford University, where he taught psychology and codirected a National Science Foundation sponsored research center. His research papers in psychobiology have been published in major scientific and professional journals, and are widely quoted in college textbooks. He has extensive training in cognitive and behavioral psychology, aimed at short term, goal-directed coaching to achieve specific practical results. For over a decade, he studied the psychology of personality structure with Helen Palmer, prominent teacher of the Enneagram system, focusing on how to resolve relationship distress caused by differences in personality styles. John is broadly trained in somatic psychology, trauma resolution, and Somatic Experiencing, the work of Peter Levine. He also has immersed himself into the study of attachment psychology and brain science, with the goal to develop tools to help adults overcome reactive dynamics and insecure patterns in order to form a secure, happy, intimate bond. In pursuit of this, he received years of training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, or EFT, the work of Sue Johnson, and in a Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy, the work of Stan Tatkin.

    John has been in private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area since 1980. Over the past three decades, he has also presented workshops in communication techniques and relationship skills at places like the Esalen Institute in Big Sur, at the University of California Berkeley, at Stanford University, at the Scripps Institute in La Jolla, and at venues throughout the Bay Area. He has given numerous professional training programs for counselors, therapists, coaches, and other helping professionals on how to effectively help clients improve their relationships and achieve personal growth. He was on Dr. John Gray's (author of the bestselling Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus) referral list of couples counselors, and he worked with John Grinder, teacher of Tony Robbins and the developer of Neurolinguistic Programming, or NLP. Additionally, John has authored multiple relationship self-help books and created an interactive relationship self-help system, which can be explored on this website. He is currently writing a new book that integrates neurobiology and attachment theory in a way that helps couples engage in practices to build secure partnership and share in authentic, fulfilling intimacy.

 
 

    Bonney Meyer, R.N., is an educator, author and coach. She received a B.S.R.N. degree from University of Wisconsin in 1979 and worked as a medical professional for two decades in all facets of medicine. Taking a mind-body approach to medical practice, she pursued extensive training in counseling methodologies, which ultimately led to a career in coaching. Bonney has a broad background in goal-directed coaching, including Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), behavioral and communication psychology — as well as in transpersonal and personality psychology, including the Enneagram. She has led communication training programs for professionals and psychotherapists. She worked with John Grinder, Ph.D., the founder of NLP and teacher of Tony Robbins. She taught relationship skills seminars at the University of California and the Scripps Institute in La Jolla. Bonney also is a teacher of divination systems such as the Tarot cards and numerology. She uses oracle cards to assist clients, and trains professional card readers to read the Tarot.

 
 

    Rosiland Solomon is an artist whose career in illustration, spanning more than two decades, includes working with clients as diverse as Disney, Scholastic, Random House, TravelSmith, Carnation, Golden Books, Kensington Computer Products, Troll Publishing, Galoob Toys, Serendipity Puzzles, and University Games. She has illustrated ten books, countless textbooks, food packages and labels, toys, games,posters, puzzles, all kinds of illustrated educational products, and even a tarot deck and astrology calendar. Her areas of specialty are nature illustration, science illustration, black & white illustration, juvenile illustration, character design, portraits, food and kitchenware design, and “MetaArt” which is her own style of illustrating Tarot, Astrology, Qabalah, and other magical images using universal sacred icons. Rosiland uses her own illustrations and works as a designer as well to create art for both print and web.

 
 

    The Joy of Relationship Cards was created to support people to build happy, successful relationships. John conceived this deck as a self-help system similar to other oracle systems like Tarot, the I Ching and the Runes. John conceived of a system dedicated solely and specifically to relationship questions. After putting together a simple test deck with clip art and using it with friends, this deck was born — created in collaboration with Bonney, a master Tarot reader and teacher, and Rosiland, a superb illustrator.

    Some people consider these cards to be like an oracle. Others use them more as flash cards that inspire them to understand and bring their best to a relationship. Still others use them as conversational ice-breakers with a partner to connect on deeper emotional levels. This reflects a versatile deck of cards and book which can be used in a variety of ways. You don't have to believe in magic to use this deck. However, don't be too surprised if they seem to deliver just the messages you need to hear if you approach using these cards with a sense of innocence and openness.

    From the original print publication, the cards were turned into an interactive online self-help system (Soulmate Oracle) featured sites like iVillage.com, as well as on divination sites Astrology.com and MyDivination.com. On our site here, the cards are known simply as the Oracle Cards and they are freely enjoyed and consulted by thousands of visitors. In addition, there is a powerfully expanded version of these cards which can be accessed here or downloaded to your computer.

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