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RELATIONSHIP TOOLS FOR POSITIVE CHANGE
Author:
John Grey, Ph.D.
Book: 248 Pages
Publisher: Leap Frog Press
Chapters: 12
Illustrator: John Grey

 

Couples who stay happy have the tools to keep love and good feelings alive — even through the tests of time.

They know how to work through relationship problems — and do so in a way that doesn't take them downhill.

If you do not have the uplifting relationship you want — things can change — and you can do something about it. But you need to have the right tools to succeed.

You can get the most effective relationship tools available today in an easy-to-read book called Relationship Tools for Positive Change.

You can download this as an e-book and start reading it immediately. Or if you prefer, get the book in print, shipped to you.

The subtitle of the book is "How to Transform Issues or Upsets into Opportunities to Strengthen Love."

A great relationship is one of the finest things life can offer.

But lasting happiness seems hard to achieve. Sadly, too many relationships end up being weighted down by unresolved difficulties. Walls can build over time. Good feelings can seem to get lost.

All relationships run into rough spots. To have lasting satisfaction, you need to know how to keep love strong and to truly resolve problems, upsets or differences.

Relationship Tools for Positive Change shows you how to create a powerful shared vision with your partner — how to heal old baggage that holds you back — how to deal with upset or difficult feelings — and how to build lasting satisfaction together.

This book guides you in how to overcome relationship problems. It gives you communication tools to express yourself effectively and to stop destructive communication altogether.

You will get powerful tools to keep love, trust and happiness alive. Tools to resolve issues and stay on a positive track. These key tools are essential if you want a truly rewarding partnership.

Regardless of how troubled a relationship — you can change things. The only question is how?

To make a significant, positive shift you need to know exactly what to do.

This is where Relationship Tools for Positive Change can help. It will give you powerful and practical tools to solve relationship problems and build a truly rewarding partnership.

Take action now and start using the tools we offer. Gain the best relationship tools available today. That's not just our opinion. Here's what leading experts, couples therapists and coaches say:

     
 
 

"Powerful tools to expand joy and happiness. Discover new options and make a positive difference in your relationship."
John Gray, Ph.D., Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

"A friendly source of guidance and wisdom, to help you have the relationship you truly want."
John Welwood, Ph.D., Journey of the Heart,  Love and Awakening

"An inspiring guidebook for the qualities necessary for fulfilling, growth-filled relationships."
Angeles Arrien, Ph.D., The Four Fold Way

"John is a superbly skilled, wise and authentic relationship coach, and the framework he uses is magnificently suited to genuine transformation. "
Deborah Boyar, Ph.D., Therapist and Workshop Leader

"John is a consummate professional in the area of relationships and personal growth, development, and healing. "
Diane Ludgate, Ph.D., Psychologist and Corporate Trainer

"John takes us beyond all of our myths and fantasies, and shows us how couples can truly succeed together."
Andrew Sears, Ph.D., Couples Therapist

"John offers us the most powerful strategies in relationship psychology today. Simple to understand, easy to use."
 — Ken Crittenden, Ph.D., Psychologist and Couples Counselor

"How to create a great relationship. Simple to understand and it lays out what you need to do step by step. And it works!"
Timothy JohnPress, Coach and Corporate Trainer

"Clear direction for how to go about the mysterious and sometimes challenging thing we call relationship."
Lisa Berg, Business Coach

"Reveals the workings of successful couples. Get the inside story of what it takes to have the relationship of your dreams."
Dawn Monnet, Coach and Motivational Speaker

 
 
 

Here's a sampling of chapters in this book...

 
 
    CHAPTER 1 — Beyond the Honeymoon

    What takes us from the highs of love to the lows of upsets and problems?
    How do satisfied couples solve issues and keep their relationship strong?


    • Discover seven blind spots that subconsciously cause problems to grow larger.
    • Learn what really blocks couples from solving problems and makes them upset.
    • Find out seven key approaches to resolve issues, instead of making them worse.
    • Gain a new approach to dealing with difficulties that will actually strengthen love.
 
 
 
    CHAPTER 5 — Stop the Polarity Dance

    Differences attract. But couples get into conflict over differences.
    How can couples resolve differences and learn to work together?


    • Understand the ten ways most couples blindly get stuck in struggles over differences.
    • Get beyond the destructive grip of these ten common relationship traps.
    • Learn the only strategy that will get you new results when things are not working.
    • Discover seven specific ways to act differently and turn power struggles around.
 
 
 
    CHAPTER 7 — Stop Falling into the Hole

    What to do if you fall into a hole? Stop digging! Here’s a vital tool to keep
    from damaging a relationship with poor communication.


    • Learn a tool to stop poor communication that makes things worse and hurts love.
    • Put a halt to the five destructive communication mistakes that lead to breakups.
    • Discover how to prevent emotional reactions, and stop saying things you later regret.
    • Make a powerful new agreement that keeps you from triggering upset feelings.
 
 
 

    CHAPTER 9 — Communicate to Get Positive Results

    Good communication is a key ingredient to keep love and happiness strong.
    Learn a powerful tool to get positive results when you communicate.


    • Understand the key factors that help you be a resourceful, good communicator.
    • Gain practical tools to communicate successfully, even about charged issues.
    • How to get your viewpoint heard, make effective requests, set healthy boundaries.
    • Go beyond upsets, defensiveness or withdrawal — be a proactive communicator.

 
 
 
    CHAPTER 10 — Transform Negative Feelings

    We can get stuck in upset feelings. Learn how to move through negative
    emotional states, release upset feelings, even heal old wounds.


    • Gain confidence in dealing with difficult feelings in yourself or in your partner.
    • Learn powerful tools for soothing hurt or angry feelings, insecurities or anxieties.
    • Release emotional patterns and old baggage that block the flow of good feelings.
    • Gain powerful tools to truly resolve charged issues and emotional upsets.
 
 
 
    CHAPTER 11 — Create a Powerful Shared Vision

    How can we keep our love strong, regardless of issues or problems?
    How can we share a vision that strengthens love in all circumstances?


    • Learn how to establish a solid foundation of trust and positive attitude as partners.
    • Create a shared vision that "weather proofs" your relationship in stressful times.
    • Discover strategies that increase shared good feelings and satisfaction.
    • Make agreements that give you strength to overcome challenges and difficulties.
 
 
 
    AND MUCH MORE — In the 248 pages of this book you will...

    Gain a comprehensive set of key effective tools for creating the postive
    change you truly want in your love live. Other chapters will help you...


    • Discover your personality type, its blind spots that limit you and your relationships.
    • Understand how to expand beyond personality limits, get free of past conditioning.
    • Learn a powerful tool to center, to stay calm, strong and creative in any situation.
    • Gain the clarity to bring your highest personal intentions to life in a relationship.
 

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